The eventual goal is to have comment threads on the meetups, and you'd be able to choose if you wanted to receive new comments as an email. Do you think there'd be a use case beyond meetups for contacting everyone?
The site was loading slowly because our score updating scripts were bogging things down. We hadn't had a chance to test them with actual data... The site should be responsive now.
That being said your site is very slow loading. Our fault?