You won't like it, but the answer is Apple. The reason is the unified memory. The GPU can access all 32gb, 64gb, 128gb, 256gb, etc. of RAM.
An easy way (napkin math) to know if you can run a model based on it's parameter size is to consider the parameter size as GB that need to fit in GPU RAM. 35B model needs atleast 35gb of GPU RAM. This is a very simplified way of looking at it and YES, someone is going to say you can offload to CPU, but no one wants to wait 5 seconds for 1 token.
What Strix Halo system has unified memory? A quick google says it's just a static vram allocation in ram, not that CPU and GPU can actively share memory at runtime
You can get tablets, laptops, and desktops. I think windows is more limited and might require static allocation of video memory, not because it's a separate pool, just because windows isn't as flexible.
With linux you can just select the lowest number in bios (usually 256 or 512MB) then let linux balance the needs of the CPU/GPU. So you could easily run a model that requires 96GB or more.
An easy way (napkin math) to know if you can run a model based on it's parameter size is to consider the parameter size as GB that need to fit in GPU RAM. 35B model needs atleast 35gb of GPU RAM. This is a very simplified way of looking at it and YES, someone is going to say you can offload to CPU, but no one wants to wait 5 seconds for 1 token.