SSH is TCP though and the outside world can initiate a handshake, the point being that wireguard silently discards unauthenticated traffic - there's no way they can know the port is open for listening.
Uh, you know you can scan UDP ports just fine, right? Hosts reply with an ICMP destination unreachable / port unreachable (3/3 in IPv4, 1/4 in IPv6) if the port is closed. Discarding packets won't send that ICMP error.
It's slow to scan due to ICMP ratelimiting, but you can parallelize.
(Sure, you can disable / firewall drop that ICMP error… but then you can do the same thing with TCP RSTs.)
