Instead of paying $5000 for a tiny 1 bedroom apartment so you can go to a nice library in SF:
Move to a cheaper place, buy the same books you were interested in borrowing brand new, plus bookshelves, plus a high end reading sofa, and perhaps even pay an actual human to read you the books and you will still would have spent less money. And if the book is not for sale, pay for a plane ticket, visit the library in SF and go back. Again, you would have spent less money.
Regarding the museum, you could move to a cheaper place, and each time you wanted to visit the museum, simply pay for a plane ticket, visit the museum, go back and still spend less money than living in SF.
Regarding the music stuff: move to a cheaper place, hire a musician full time, brand new instruments, a recording studio, and you will still have more money at the end.
Do the math. Living in SF is throwing money down the toilet.
Have fun drinking $50 fruit juice at "Joe & the juice".
Move to a cheaper place, buy the same books you were interested in borrowing brand new, plus bookshelves, plus a high end reading sofa, and perhaps even pay an actual human to read you the books and you will still would have spent less money. And if the book is not for sale, pay for a plane ticket, visit the library in SF and go back. Again, you would have spent less money.
Regarding the museum, you could move to a cheaper place, and each time you wanted to visit the museum, simply pay for a plane ticket, visit the museum, go back and still spend less money than living in SF.
Regarding the music stuff: move to a cheaper place, hire a musician full time, brand new instruments, a recording studio, and you will still have more money at the end.
Do the math. Living in SF is throwing money down the toilet.
Have fun drinking $50 fruit juice at "Joe & the juice".